Romance writers shape the American dream… so tell me, is hyper-wealth truly that sexy?


Cherished historical romance author (and reader!) colleagues,

Something has been niggling at me for a while, and I wanted to share and ask what you think. One sexy attribute of historical heroes that seems nearly mandatory in our genre is “great wealth and a title.” A lot of authors of the stories set in Byron’s time also seem to enjoy playing with the irresponsible reputations some heirs had. Drinking. Carousing. Spending money. Not caring about their estates.

My question is this: In a world where the 8 people at the top are holding more wealth than 3,600,000,000 people at the bottom, hasn't the acquisition of hyper-wealth become a bit of a sign of mental illness? Is hyper-wealth truly that sexy, or is it just a sign of someone who is unbalanced and can’t see what’s going on around him?

In light of our current world’s problems, when we're describing a hero being sexy, saying something like “he owns half the county of Sussex” has started to turn me off.  

And here’s why: What is the American dream? Owning a house and a huge amount of land and, especially, more than your neighbour? Or living in a community of people who help and cherish each other? For many immigrants to America, it was the latter. But it feels like many of the historical novels we are writing are slanted towards the former.

And what we write shapes our readers’ minds. So let’s think on this for a minute. What we write, collectively, shapes our readers’ minds, and the society we all create together.

Hyper-wealthy heroes in many historical romances I have read have more estates than they can reasonably visit. They leave their manor houses unvisited and their estates untended. Let's be clear and realistic – in the true version of this history we right about, lords who behaved like that let farms and buildings run down and turn into ruins, and left their tenants struggling to make things work and living miserable lives in extreme poverty. None of it needed to be that way, if they had had an intelligent lord who paid attention.

With the income gap increasing in our society again now, do we really still think people who own so much that they don’t bother to pay attention to it or visit it, is sexy?

Isn't it Way More Sexy to show that rich guy doing good works and caring for his estates, instead of owning loads of estates he doesn't even visit? Perhaps, reasonably selling some at decent rates to good caretakers to make sure that the people and industries of those estates are compassionately run? I mean it's all in the way we portray it. Young people are reading our books and shaping their thoughts and dreams as they read what we write. It's a responsibility.

How about this real-life guy, Titus Salt, as a hero?
Yes, he was stinkin' rich, but he was also an innovator. He was one of the first guys to take a chance on Alpaca wool in England. He cared for the people who worked for him and the quality of their environment (yes, in 1853), and built them decent places to live (in fact, 823 houses, shops, a school, recreational facilities, and places of worship).
Titus Salt made sure the people associated with him had a liveable way of life instead of simply buying luxuries for himself while they starved (as we can assume these hyper-wealthy historical heroes we have created who offhandedly haven’t even visited half their estates, probably did).
When Titus Salt died, so Wikipedia reports, the newspapers said, "Estimates vary, but the number of people lining the route [of the funeral] probably exceeded 100,000."
Now that’s a romantic hero. A hero of the people, for the people.

Even if hyper-wealthy people existed then and exist now... do we have to present it as the sexiest possible thing? In our role as writers, idea mongers, society shapers, shouldn't we start portraying compassion and intelligence as sexier than the mere acquisition of things? Won’t that affect how young women who read our books learn to choose their mates and what people do with their money? Won’t that affect what we expect of others around us? I believe it will.

But then, I’d much rather have a man who can build me something, than buy me something. As a spinster who has looked from the outside at many marriages, the ones with husbands who DO things for their wives are so much happier than husbands who can just BUY things. So why are we teaching our readers the opposite of that?

The future needs more compassion than it needs people who value and defend a right to hyper-wealth. As writers, we fuel hopes and dreams and create our society’s future. If you ask me, a sexy powerful man is one who thinks of others – even his servants – pays his factory workers a living wage, builds liveable villages, educates his serfs, and extends a hand to help!

Or is this historical Byronic version of the “bad boy” hero simply too irresistible to so many readers that we feel it sells better? What am I missing here? I know I’m missing something in understanding this issue. I would love to know your thoughts.

Christa
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Titus_Salt


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